The Magic Traffic Signal Explained
A guy can be very attracted and deeply in love with you, but STILL not want to move the relationship forward.
Whether “forward” means calling you for another date to saying “I do.” his “forward” decision making process HAPPENS IN HIS GUT!
T Dub calls this his “Magic Traffic Signal”.
A man does NOT process his feelings like you do.
As you may be aware?
Men have a hard time processing their feelings at all.
Please know…and this is CRUCIAL.
Men do FEEL FEELINGS.
And these FEELINGS dictate much of their action.
(Regardless of how “logical” a man argues he is.
And when it comes to him deciding if he should move a relationship forward…
He feels in 3 broad strokes. I use these visuals to help teach this vital concept.
THE GREEN LIGHT:
A good feeling, where there seems to be no danger in moving forward.
THE YELLOW LIGHT:
A feeling of caution. Maybe we should slow down?
THE RED LIGHT:
A certain feeling that something is wrong even if he can’t explain it…to himself and certainly not to the woman he’s attracted to or in love with.
Here’s something only very few women understand…
T Dub calls it the “flip flop effect”.
When a man first meets you…his light is more sensitive to flip flopping from green, red to yellow, back to green, to yellow…you get the idea?
Once he’s green for a period of time a man will have a tendency to STAY GREEN.
In The “Girl Gets Ring System” the WHOLE STRATEGY is using a man’s natural wiring to get him GREEN quickly and keeping him there…
When you do…
He moves the relationship forward all on his own.
*No ultimatums needed*.
*No manipulation tactics*
And you feel AWESOME because you know deep down he’s genuine and not with you because of some trickery or fear of loss.
So by now…
You’re likely curious about his “wiring”?
What makes him “green”?…”yellow”?…”red”?
And if you suspect your guy is “yellow” or “red” what can you do?